When we lack humility.....

 Brothers and sisters, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. ¹² There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?
¹³ Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.” ¹⁴ Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. ¹⁵ Instead, you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” ¹⁶ As it is, you boast in your arrogant schemes. All such boasting is evil. ¹⁷ If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them  James 4:11-17




We need to remember that this book was written as a letter.  So it flowed from one subject into another.  This passage followed verse 10 which exhorts believers to humble themselves.  Then the next thoughts from Brother James are demonstrating the behavior we exhibit when we DO NOT humble ourselves.........


The lack of humility -- that would be, duh, PRIDE -- shows itself in these three areas:

People, plans, priorities


Lack of humility results in our being


1.  Critical of people - vs 11,12
When we don't embrace our place in relation to God's rightful place, we tend to put ourselves on the bench as Judge.  We evaluate people's actions, ascribe motives to them, decide the appropriate punishment, and then, often we execute it ourselves.  Like a bailiff that usurps the role of the jury, the judge, and the jailer, all in one.  As though we don't trust THE Lawgiver, THE Judge, to address the problems in someone else's life, we assume responsibility of doing so.  Not that it's wrong to call sin "sin" - not at all.  The problem comes when we assume the role of determining motive and punishment.  That's pride.


2. Arrogance in plans - vs 13-16
Now I'm a planner.  I like to know my schedule and make plans accordingly.  I don't like to rush at the last minute to do things that could've been taken care of in advance.  Is this passage condemning such contemplations?
No.


Plenty of other verses commend and exhort planfulness.  Proverbs 6:6-8 and Proverbs 10:5 to name a few.


Rather, it's calling us to examine not only the making of our plans but especially the "why".  Notice the motive in verse 13 -- "to make money".  Other translations say "to make a profit".  The lack of humility is demonstrated when our goal is to advance our own agenda rather than submitting to God's plans for our time.


3.  Setting of priorities - vs 17
When my life is characterized by pride (self-focus) instead of humility (God-centered), I am prone to ignore the promptings or conviction of the Holy Spirit.  And then I don't do what I know to be right and/ or I do what I know to be wrong.  That is sin.  Of omission or commission.  It's sin.  And it's rooted in pride.


SO, how can we walk in humility instead of pride?  If these verses reveal pride in us regarding our attitude towards people, our pursuit of personal agenda, our insistence on our own way - what we we do instead?


Go back to verse 10.  Get in the presence of the Lord.  Soak up who HE is and inevitably we see who we are NOT.  Confess the sin His Spirit reveals.  Ask for His transforming power. 


And ask Him to point out every manifestation of pride every time it occurs.


Then repent.  Change directions.
 Give grace to people instead of condemnation.
Ask the Lord for His directions instead of your own.
Respond in obedience to what He shows you is right.


Pride is destructive. 


Humility is exalting.  Right into His presence.
And there, and only there, do we find fullness of joy.


Amen.

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Are you a peacemaker? Or a peace-faker? Or a peace-taker?

We ended the last post from James with this verse


And the seed whose fruit is righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace (James 3:18)


Pretty clear.  If we want righteousness in our lives..........and in the lives of those around us........we must be peacemakers.


Sounds good!


But what's a peacemaker?



The need for a peacemaker certainly implies that there is a lack of peace....in other words, a conflict of some degree.  We might label it tension, frustration, annoyance :) or even war.  Instead of mutual harmony, serenity, freedom from angst or disturbance.


So a peacemaker is one who can act as the catalyst to bring peace to a situation, to relationships. One who brings reconciliation, restoration.  And this seed of peacemaking results in the fruit of righteousness.  To all involved. 


Wow.  Powerful concept.


How can we be peacemakers?


First, know that the absence of visible conflict does not necessarily equal peace.  Because, instead of "making" peace, we can merely be "faking" peace.  Sweeping issues under the rug, pretending that all is well...all the while being bruised and battered by the inevitable bumps that accumulate under the rug.  Peace-faking is an escape response to the need for peace, either by denial or by flight (running away from the conflict such as withdrawing from a relationship, quitting a job or church, ending a relationship)
Peace-faking is terribly unsuccessful because it results in no resolution of the problems.  Although this response might bring some temporary relief from the angst and tension it will eventually make the situation worse.


Peace-takers are the opposite end of the spectrum from peace-faking.  This response might be disguised to look like an attempt at reconciliation but is actually an attack.  Peace-takers are interested in getting their own way rather than in preserving a relationship.  They use control (bullying, intimidation, verbal attacks) or manipulation (gossip, slander, pouting, withholding approval or affection) to overcome the "opponent" in a conflict.  This always makes the situation worse.


But a peace maker  is one whose example is Christ, whose inspiration is grace and whose goal is genuine harmony, understanding, and restoration.  Here are the things a peace maker does:


1.  Overlook an offense - Proverbs 19:11 says "A man's wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense".  Notice the verse doesn't say "to pretend it didn't happen".  To overlook it means to look past it, to see the bigger picture.  To value the relationship so much (and to want to imitate Christ so much!) that we absorb the cost of the offense.  Forgive.  Move past it. Don't let it fester and develop into bitterness and pent-up anger.  Overlook an offense.  Much peace could be achieved if we would just be willing to overlook offenses.


2.  Seek reconciliation - Matthew 5:23-24 exhorts us "If your brother has something against you...go and be reconciled".  If we have been the offender, this certainly applies.  But we also need to consider it when we think we are in the right......but perceive our brother thinks otherwise.  Tall orders, to be sure.  This requires divine humility, this removal of the log in our eye so that we can see how our brother might be viewing things (Matthew 7:5)  Again, valuing the relationship above our "personal rights".  Just like Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. 8 And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. (Phil. 2:6-8)


3.  Pursue restoration - Often, we are interested in resolving a conflict for selfish reasons.  We want to enjoy the peace instead of endure the tension.  But a peacemaker is focused on the restoration of the other person.  Even at personal cost.   With Matthew 7:5 in mind (and applied!), a peacemaker pursues the good of the offender - Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. ( Galatians 6:1)  Restoration.  Not for the sake of pointing out how somehow has wronged us but rather with the goal of restoring their fellowship with the Father.


Peacemaking.  It's costly.  It requires humility and sacrifice and maturity.....it's like Jesus.  It bears a harvest of righteousness.  In our lives and in the lives of others.


Blessed are the peacemakers,  for they will be called children of God  (Matthew 5:9)

Wisdom applied

We took a break from our study of James.  I'm glad to get back to it.  It's one of my most favorite books in Scripture.  If you want to check out the earlier posts, this will get you started  /livingletters4/2014/09/the-h-factor.html


This week we are in chapter 3, verses 13-18


Who is wise and understanding among you? By his good conduct let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom. 14 But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth. 15 This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. 16 For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. 17 But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. 18 And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.


Just a reminder - the preceding verses were all about the tongue.  How it holds such potential for evil and is liable to just break out with poison.  The impact it has on the hearer....and the speaker.  In the passage for today, James exhorts us to apply the truth he's just imparted. 

The first verse, in essence, asks who is willing to now live with regard to this truth, this truth of managing the tongue, in light of its potential for evil.  The "wise" here is a different word than usually occurs in the original Greek text.  The expected word for "wise" is "Sophia" but here, the word "Sophos" is used.  It translates as "a watchman" - one who watches and is thereby able to regulate his course.  The word for "works" is understood as results. And "meekness" is not weakness....rather it's power under control.  Think in terms of a mighty stallion, bridled and controlled so that his strength is used advantageously, not destructively.


So James is telling us here that our tongues need watching over.  And if we do it right, the results will be good conduct, power used to give life instead of bringing death.


In the next verses (14-16), Scripture reminds us about what governs our tongue.....our hearts.  And if the heart is wrong, don't arrogantly ignore the truth that our tongue will display what's inside.  As we learned earlier, what fills our hearts will spill out our mouths. 
These verses are radical.  They run so counter to what the "wisdom" the world offers us --- the "wisdom" that isn't wise at all.  The world advises us to maneuver ourselves up over others, tearing them down as necessary.  And a heart focused on its own selfish agenda will inevitably be jealous of those that seem "ahead" in some way.
This "wisdom" isn't wise at all.  It's not only toxic, it's actually demonic.  And it won't give us what we're after --- a life full of joy and peace and satisfaction.  Instead, this kind of "wisdom" results in chaos and unrest and evil.  In spite of what it seems to promise.


This passage closes with a litmus test for our decisions.  If we wonder what to do, whether it's a ruptured relationship or tension at work or a career choice, we can evaluate it in terms of verses 17-18.  A wise decision is one that first has a pure motive (not a selfish one!), a desire to reconcile and restore; one that is gentle as opposed to harsh or pushy.  One that is reasonable (do we women sometimes expect more than is reasonable???).  One that shows mercy in how it treats others.....not how they deserve but how they need.  One that is just (impartial) and sincere...without hypocrisy. 


And this wisdom is like a seed.  A fruitful seed that grows and blooms into a whole harvest of righteousness.  By those willing to make peace.  With themselves and with others.


Next time, we'll dig into this one verse to learn what a peacemaker is.....and what it isn't.


Looking forward to it already!