How can we calm out hearts in the midst of the storm?
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There are times in life when the sun shines brightly. Times when all is right with all you love. Times when you feel like you are winning. Those are such great times! I love them! But they don’t last , There are those other times….
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Ahab told Jezebel all that Elijah had done, and how he had killed all the prophets with the sword. Then Jezebel sent a messenger to Elijah, saying, “So may the gods do to me and more also, if I do not make your life as the life of one of them by this time tomorrow.” Then he was afraid, and he arose and ran for his life and came to Beersheba, which belongs to Judah, and left his servant there. But he himself went a day's journey into the wilderness and came and sat down under a broom tree. And he asked that he might die, saying, “It is enough; now, O Lord, take away my life, for I am no better than my fathers.” And he lay down and slept under a broom tree. And behold, an angel touched him and said to him, “Arise and eat.” And he looked, and behold, there was at his head a cake baked on hot stones and a jar of water. And he ate and drank and lay down again. And the angel of the Lord came again a second time and touched him and said, “Arise and eat, for the journey is too great for you.” And he arose and ate and drank, and went in the strength of that food forty days and forty nights to Horeb, the mount of God. I Kings 19:1-8
Sometimes after the highs of our lives (wonderful blessings or even great spiritual victories as was the case with Elijah), we experience quite undesirable lows. How gracious of our God to include in His Holy Word this story of Elijah’s journey from depression back to joy! Tucked into the books of I Kings is a prescription that we can use in our fight for joy. Let’s see what is included in this passage…
Here’s the background – Elijah, prophet of God, was witness and catalyst to a mighty display of God’s glory. He invited the prophets of the false god Baal to a showdown between their god and the One True God. I hope that in Eternity, God will pull back the curtain of time to let us witness this amazing event where God shows those misguided people Who He is! Talk about a blaze of Glory! (For the details, check out I Kings 18)
In spite of this great victory, Elijah is human. And that means he is susceptible to doubt and fear. He falls prey to the temptation to fear what man could do to him (or in this case, a woman!) and he subsequently doubts God’s care for him. In this state, he runs away from the problem, hides out, and prefers death to living this way. God shows such tender mercy to him! Instead of telling him to straighten up and face things like a man, God is so gentle, so kind, so compassionate. Look up Psalm 103:13,14 for a reminder of how God sees us.
This passage above has a message for us about our own tendency to dip into depression. First, don’t be taken off guard. Know that we are all vulnerable in this way and be intentional about resting in Him always, especially in the aftermath of those “mountaintop experiences”.
But if you find yourself in the valley, take a page out of Elijah’s story. Take care of your body. Sometimes the most spiritual thing we can do is to take a nap! We are physical beings, not just spiritual ones! And when our bodies are exhausted or ill, that can definitely take a toll on our spirit. Take a nap. Eat healthy. Go for a walk. Get a physical. Maybe there is a physiological cure to your spiritual woes!
Living Stones
There are some folks with whom I meet, regularly and intentionally, to encourage one another in our pursuit to become more like Jesus. The church body that I call home, a small group of women, a group of married couples, and some close friends that know me (and still love me!) all are part of God’s blessed design to strengthen my faith, mold me into Christlikeness, and overall to enjoy following Him together. One of the groups I belong to was reading an assigned passage together and it struck me in a fresh way. Ephesians 2:19-22 says ”So then you are no longer strangers and aliens,but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone, in whom the whole structure, being joined together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord. In him you also are being built together into a dwelling place for God by the Spirit.”
You’ve probably read those verses hundreds of times, as I have, but one little phrase stood out to me. “Being fitted together”. What does it mean to be fitted together?
The phrase conveys the meaning of smoothing out an edge here, rubbing off an edge there, so that two pieces can be joined in construction, dovetailed, coordinated, harmonized. “Fitted together” is different from “piled up together” or even “seated together”. It implies change, adjustments, connections, contributions, modifications. All done in order to accomplish an intended design.
Since I Peter 2:5 calls us “living stones”, it is helpful to include that as we apply this verse. Think of an accumulation of stones, piled upon the Rock, Jesus Christ our Cornerstone. Being randomly stacked together is much like the folks I see on my regular trips to Kroger, especially Stephanie, my favorite checkout clerk. We smile and chat and are glad to see one another but there is nothing required to “fit together”. Sort of like Christians visiting around churches but never settling on one.
Or we can be closely aligned (but still not “fitted together”). Such as the great group of folks I do step class with at St Marys Wellness Center. They are my friends, my workout buddies, and absolutely precious people. We are even all pretty committed to our wellness routines! But not “fitted together”. The most required of us amongst ourselves is to arrange our step benches so that we all can fit. Kind of like regular attenders at church….no real commitment or change required.
So what does it mean to be “living stones”, “fitted together”, as the apostles Peter and Paul exhort us? First, we cannot skip over Christ as our Cornerstone. This “stone which the builders rejected” is of primary importance. He is our foundation (holds us secure) , blueprint (for the dwelling place of God), and our purpose(to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God). Without Him, we are just meaningless rocks – not living stones!
Not only are we built upon Christ, He also intends for us to be “fitted together” with one another. This means we have been designed to not be a solitary rock, nor piled up randomly, nor even to lie close beside other living stones. Rather we are to be customized in order to be a useful piece in the overall structure. Beginning with our original motif (our gifts and talents), we progress through shaping and sharpening(sanctification) so that we mesh perfectly with other living stones for the sake of becoming a beautiful and beneficial display of the glory of God. “Fitted together” means we must be in committed community with other “living stones”. Not just enjoying church, not only regularly attending, not even only being a church member. Instead, it is being committed to a local group of believers with whom we can learn and grow and serve and change …”fitted together”.
This is how we are able to display to the world the essence of who God is, edify other believers, and become conformed to the image of The Cornerstone, Jesus Christ. I hope you will commit yourself to be “fitted together” for Him.
Underscoring the importance of thankfulness
repost from a year ago. Bears repeating…..
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